4 ways to always n forever

 

There is no right way or wrong way to love . Love is a journey , an experience ,a beautiful feeling . No matter how many times we break out heart , how many times we promise never to go that way... But we still long to b loved , we still want to love. Everytime we hope it will b perfect. But the beauty of love is, it's never complet or it's never perfect. The sooner one realize , the faster the person will find the perfect anyways and forever. 

1. Love with boundaries- love is indeed endless but two individuals in love should have boundaries. Decide n be vocal about what is accepted n what is a straight no. If you don't like something be open about expressing it and be prepared to hear a no. Something a big fat NO is very essential for a healthy relationship. It doesn't mean you don't love your partner. But it means you love yourself too. It's not wrong to express what you disagree upon . Cause if you don't , soon you will lose self to be something , which you no longer relate to . Don't lose yourself to find others . 

2. Picture perfect- don't build an image of things in your head regarding your partner. We all are different n that what makes us special. Don't build an image of Ur partner in your head n expect your partner to fit in that image according to your imagination. Love is simple , it's what you see in others and appreciate them to b that way. Don't try to find yourself in others , you will never find that . There will be common grounds but not identical personalities. 

3. End the fight- when two people r in love, there will b fights, disagreements n arguments. The art lies behind ending it . It's not about who won n who lost it. It's about what's bigger , your love for the partner or your point in argument. You r not in a warzone, that you have to win . Sometimes losing an argument will save you from losing a relationship. It's not about who said what, it's about how long you took to say I LOVE YOU in an argument. Drop it, bite it n let it go. Cause together in love is always beautiful than, alone winning an argument. 

4. constant effort-  let the magic of love never fade off. This requires constant expression, both physically n emotionally. Love is a journey of togetherness. Don't make it a solo walk . Do things for your partner. Random notes in the house. Unexpected flowers at work.  The touch, the feel , the expression, should never fade off. Make it a point that you tell n make your partner feel loved. The number of years should strengthen your love not fade it off. Let your love b like a red wine not a perfume. Nurture it n take care of it . 

Blessed r people who find love. If you find your other half. Invest time, effort n love. Keep them safe. Life is too short to walk solo in the garden of love. Hope you find a hand which is different but finds its perfect match to hold on . 

Love 

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