fail again and fail better- 4 lessons

 We always talk about success. Have you every thought about your failures? We are always proud about our success but, have you ever though about  the failures.. which made the success so relevant. Every time I failed, I became more stronger, wiser and confident. Every failure taught me:

1) Made me stronger- My failures are my medals. I did it, cause i believed in the thought and executed it. There were people and friends, who did stop me but and warned me. But I still went towards it. I fell and I fell so bad. Many time i struggled to get up. I had people making fun of my failure, mocking me and calling me loser. I felt lost and hopeless but THEN i got myself together and I tried again. Cause i knew what i wanted and how badly I wanted it. I stood again and believed in my gut feeling.  It was tough but I did it anyway. Failure was important, cause if i did not fail, I would not know what I am capable of and how strong I am. Thank you failure.

2) I chose myself- I own all of my failures I chose my feelings above others. It did not turn out the way i wished but I am proud that i chose to do it anyway ,what I totally believed in. Most of the time we live our life according to others and what they believed in. I am glad that i failed cause i chose my decision over others. Its my life and  its better to fail cause of your own decision than some one else's. Think about it.

3) I learnt -As every success directed towards what to do. Every failure taught me, what not to do. The hurt and fall was so bad that, the feeling linger for a life time. Things not to do. Failure made me realize my mistakes and taught me lessons. The life lessons. things to avoid to avoid failures. I am glad i failed, cause if i had not failed, I would not know what is wrong and what to avoid in life Its important to know negative to appreciate positive. Gratitude to failure. 

4) I evolved - What I am what I am, is not only cause of my success but equally due to my failures. In-fact more cause of failure. Every failure made me more wiser, go getter, confident , gambler. Today I take calculated risks. There is a different kick in that. Hahaha   you will know how it feels, only if you have failed enough. I learnt anything is possible, what worst can happen, I will fail, learn a lesson and try again. This time i would know what to avoid. Better isn't it? The fear of "what if" is reduced. 

So FAIL AGAIN AND FAIL BETTER , cause failure is the stepping stone for success. Without failure success does not exist.

Love 

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